How did you leave your spouse today…with purpose or without much thought? Even if you left your spouse in a huff, there is time to call them and set things right. Every time you part from your spouse there is an opportunity to kiss them and tell them you love them. What lasting impression did [...]
Read more →I was traveling out of state a few months ago, staying with a family, when the following scenario unfolded. Every time the wife would walk into the house, she had a ritual which began with crouching down with knees bent, balancing on her feet, and cooing in a whiney, high-pitched voice phrases like, “Oh baby, [...]
Read more →How often do you finish your spouse’s sentence? Sometimes it’s a sign on unity and other times it’s one person rudely interrupting the other. Maybe your spouse is always quiet because they never get to finish what they want to say. Is interrupting an issue in your communication?
Read more →The process of discovering sexual satisfaction is an ever-changing, always-adapting experience in marriage. It is deeply personal and can be complicated and confusing. That’s why it’s vital to regularly communicate about and evaluate your sex life. When was the last time you talked about your sex life?
Read more →If you travel with a global positioning system (GPS), it’s likely you’ve had this happen. Your GPS is programmed to get you to your destination in a safe and reliable way until you decide you’d rather take a different route. You go straight instead of turning where the system wants you to turn and in [...]
Read more →Make a resolution in the new year to replace your “me” attitude with a “we” mentality. Marriage is the making of one life out of two, which requires constant interaction, communication, and a heart to serve. How can you turn in your “me” attitude for a “we” attitude?
Read more →The holidays can add underlying stress to a marriage. Dealing with relatives, attending parties, and figuring out the perfect gifts to buy all add to the drama. Figure out a way to spend time alone with your spouse capturing the joy of the season. What would be a good way for the two of you [...]
Read more →No matter how many times you throw a ball for dogs, they’ll chase it. Dogs love the act of chasing after something and then pleasing their master by bringing it back to them—sometimes! Cats chase mice and also like to bring back—well, enough said. People like to chase things, too. You can make your life [...]
Read more →When we neglect to celebrate the good in a marriage, things can quickly get stale. That’s why it’s important for spouses to get creative and find small ways to keep things fresh. What can you do today to freshen up your relationship?
Read more →As I sit in my office on a cold, snowy day, I find myself staring mindlessly into the computer screen. It is full of images, scrolling messages, blinking signs, and ads flashing continuously tempting me to click on an icon for the chance to win some fabulous prize. In addition, my cell phone is vibrating, [...]
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