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Send Secret Signals

Send Secret Signals Establish a secret signal - a nod of the head, a wink of the eye, or some such notion - that means something special to the two of you. Using your secret signals allows you to share an intimate moment no matter where you are.

Question:
What secret signal do you and your spouse already have?

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By - Nicole from Grand Rapids, MI on 05/06/2008
My husband and I verbally tell each other all the time that we love each other but when we are around others we use the kissing noise to get our point across.
By - Deb from Grand Rapids, MI on 05/04/2008
My husband and I have two signals that both mean I love you. One is quick head bobs. The other is making tiny little kissing sounds with our lips. We do either or both whenever we want to tell each other we love each other. Our children have picked up on it and occ****ionally do likewise. It always makes us smile.
By - Nate from Olathe, KS on 05/04/2008
A few years ago when my wife was struggling with some frustrations at work and in ministry I kept telling her that she needed to remember two things: that I love her and tham I'm proud of her. Since then, we've boiled it down and that I can just say "Two things" and she knows right away what two things I'm talking about...that I love her and I'm proud of her. It still makes her smile...
By - Jeremy from Holland, MI on 05/04/2008
My wife and I play a tap game. She nudges me three times to say, "I love you" and I nudge her two times back to say "Me, too." We do this in places where you are supposed to be quiet like during service or at a movie.
By - Keith from Hamilton on 05/02/2008
My wife & I work at the same plant. I drive a cart all over & p**** by her all day. At times when we look at each other we will stick out our tounges to say I love you.
By - Patti from Grand Rapids MI on 05/02/2008
My husband and I have lots of sign language - with looks, touch, and motions. My favorite though is when we squeeze our thumb and first finger together it means "I want a hug" or "I want to be by you". We do it from across the room and the other comes running for a special touch. It's so fun.
By - Amber from Spring Lake MI on 05/01/2008
My husband and I have two signals actually. First one~ He will wink at me with his left eye then I will do it back but then when he winks at me with his right eye I am not so talented so I blink my eyes then wink with my left. We also do the chin wave from the movie The Little Rascals, We do these both whenever we can to keep the love and romance alive.
By - wendy from grand rapids, mi on 05/01/2008
My husband and I have a secret squeeze. We squeeze ezch others arm or leg three times to say "I love you". We also do it with our children who have introduced it to our extended family! We all say I love you more often to each other now!
By - Mary from Columbia, SC on 05/01/2008
My husband and I will hold up 2 fingers to signal "I love you too (2)". This has become our "wave goodbye" as well. Our 9 year old daugher has picked up on this and on occ****ion signals with 3 fingers so she is included in the count!
By - Jessica from Rockford, MI on 05/01/2008
When we are in a very public place, restaurant or large party, he will turn to me (especially from across the room) and wink at me. It lets me know that he is thinking of me and says, "I love you".
By - Chris & Heather-Lee from Holland, MI on 05/01/2008
Although it's not intended as "love" signal, it sure helps stay loving. When we're in a social situation and it's time to remove ourselves -- one of us will say, "Emshee emshee". It's something my wife learned during her time in Egypt as a young girl. Basically, it means "go away"....It sure has helped us in some situations where we needed a subtle way to signal to the other it's time to leave! And that can be a signal of love!
By - Kate from Holland,Mi on 04/30/2008
We squeeze each other's hand or tap each other's leg 3 times to mean "I Love You"
By - Danielle from Zeeland, MI on 04/30/2008
My husband and I point to our eye to tell the other, "I love you"-- from across a crowd or across the room.